காதலிக்கும் பெண்களிடம் ஆண்களின் வேண்டுகோள்

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vd;d ele;jhYk; ehd; cd;NdhL ,Ug;Ngd; vd;w rj;jpak; jhd; fhjy;.

fhjy; vd;gJ mbg;gilapy; ghypd <u;g;G vd;whYk; midtiuAk; ekf;F gpbj;JtpLtjpy;iy. tpNrlkhf xUtiuNa kdk; vz;ZfpwJ. mq;F jhd; me;j Gdpjj;jd;ik ,Uf;fpwJ.

xUtid cau;j;JtjpYk; jho;j;JtjpYk; fhjypw;Fj; jhd; ngUk; gq;F cz;L.

,d;W mNdfkhd fhjy;fs; MW khjj;ijj; jhz;Ltjpy;iy. “ngz;Nz vd; gazNkh njhlq;fNtapy;iy.. mjw;Fs; mJ Kbtjh GupaNt ,y;iy” vd;W Gyk;gpj;jpupfpwhu;fs; Mz;fs;.

,d;W fhjiytpl fhjypg;gtu;fspd; NtfKk; tajpd; NtfKk; jhd; mjpfkhd cs;sJ. Ie;J Ngiu ghu;j;J mjpy; %d;W Ngiu njupTnra;J> mjpy; ,uz;L NgUf;F fhjiy nrhy;yp filrpapy; xUtiu jpUkzk; nra;a epidf;fpwhu;fs;. ntspehl;L khg;gps;isapd; rk;ke;jk; te;jhy; me;j xUtUf;Fk; re;Njfk;jhd;..

rpd;dr;rpd;d fhuzq;fshy; vy;yhk; gpupe;J nry;fpwhu;fs;. mjpYk; FLk;g #o;epiyfis xU Af;jpahf itj;J tpyFtJk; tof;fkhfptpl;lJ. fhjiy mwpe;jJk; je;ij fz;zPu; tpLtJk; kfs; kdk; ciltJk; vd;W mg;gh-kfs; ghrk; xU Gwk;.

fhjypy; gutrj;jhy; gwe;J gpd; gpuptpd; NghJ rpwnfhbe;J tpOe;jgpd; Mz;fs; Gyk;gpj;jpuptJk; ngz;fs; nksdk; rhjpg;gJk; fz;Z}lhf fhz;fpNwhk;. mjpy; Mr;rupak; vd;dntd;why; ngz;fs; vJFNk elf;fhjJ Nghy; jpupthu;fNs.. mJ jhd;. ,q;F gpupT xUj;jid igj;jpaf;fhud; Mf;FfpwNjh ,y;iyNah ngz;zpd; nksdk; kl;Lk; epr;rakhd igj;jpak; Mf;fptpLk;.

ngz;fNs.. cq;fs; RghtKk; Mz;fs; RghtKk; tpj;jpahrkhdit.

• Ngrhky; tpLtjhy;(nksdk;) vy;yhk; Kbe;JtpLk; vd ePq;fs;(ngz;fs;) epidf;fpwPu;fs.; Ngrp Kbg;gJ jhd; jPu;T vd;W Mz;fs; epidf;fpwhu;fs;.

• kdjpy; gl;lJk; Ntfkhf KbntLf;fpwPu;fs; ngz;fs;. cq;fs; Ntfj;jpw;F Mz;fshy; KbntLf;fTk; Kbtjpy;iy> Kbj;JtplTk; Kbtjpy;iy.

• mg;g gpbj;jJ ,g;g gpbf;fy vd;W jiyapy; ifia itf;Fk;gb mrhl;lhf fhuzk; $whjPu;fs;.

• nry;yk; Fl;b vd;W nfhQ;rpf; Fyhtpa Kfj;ij ghu;f;fNt gpbf;fhjJ Nghy; gpwuplk; Kbit nrhy;yp tplhjPu;fs;.

• cq;fs; Kbtpy; ,d;ndhU ,jak; njhlu;Ggl;Ls;sJ vd;gJ epidtpypUf;fl;Lk;.

• ntspehl;L Nkhfk; ,Ue;jhy; fhjy; vd;w rpe;jidf;F tpLKiw nfhLf;fyhNk..

• cq;fs; fhjyid gw;wp ahUk; VJk; jtwhf $wpdhy; fhjydplNk Neupy; Nfl;L njspthf;fpf;nfhs;Sq;fs;.

• mbkdjpy; vOe;j fhjy; vd;Wk; mope;J tpLtjpy;iy. ,t;thW ,Uf;f fhjiy itj;Jf;nfhz;L ,y;yhjJ Nghy; fhl;bf;nfhs;tij jtpUq;fs;.

• re;ju;g;g #o;epiyfis fhuzk; fhl;Lgtu;fs; cq;fisg; ghu;f;fpYk; clk;igtpw;W gpiog;gts; Nky; vd;gij mwptPu;fs;. fhuzk; Njfk; kl;Lk; fhjy; ,y;;iy. cliytplTk; cs;sj;jpd; fw;G jhd; kfj;jhdJ.